Taking Care of Someone Else

Sometimes, the best way to distract yourself from your own pain is to be taking care of someone else. Not only does it offer a loving distraction, but it can frequently offer a bit of perspective.
Taking care of another being - especially one that cannot verbally communicate - also forces action.

I love taking care of our pups.
Well, 99% of the time. I get frustrated, just like anyone else, but even the most difficult moments are worth it. We have two little beings who rely on us for everything. That is a big commitment. Not even a quarter as much pressure as taking care of little humans, but still pressure.
These little dudes often force me out of bed even though I am comfortable, they force me outside even in the coldest weather conditions, and they force me to play. On days when I feel run down and like I barely have enough energy to even eat, these guys encourage me to kneel on the floor and play with them. And then I realize how little effort it takes to entertain them - and myself.
There is nothing like playing with little beings. They bring out the best in people, they bring out laughter and joy and a sense of purpose.

The most important balance for me right now is to allow these pups to push me, but to make sure that I don't entirely sacrifice my health. I need to find that balance. So far it's going swimmingly, with the lack of sleep being the largest issue. I think that getting outside several times a day to let them pee has been a very positive influence on my day-to-day health.

I am so grateful to be taking care of these boys. I am even more grateful to have a partner who is the perfect mixture of helpful and patient.
I love our little family.