The Lighter Side of: Using a Cane

Having difficulty with mobility is not exactly a positive thing. With deteriorating back and hips, mobility can take a big hit.
I first began using a cane when I was 26 years old. I often have a limp due to pain and muscle spasms in my back and hips, and my energy levels have dropped tremendously from my body constantly battling itself.
Using a cane was a hit to my pride, but it also opened up more opportunities. The same thing occurred when I began to need a wheelchair for certain outings.

The Lighter Side of using a cane is that you can find very pretty, sparkly, or interesting canes for all occasions and all sorts of extra little parts. You can find handcrafted wooden canes, canes specifically for ice and snow, collapsible canes that can fit in a purse, or even canes with a secret compartment for pills or other small items.
Plus, if you cannot walk very far without an aid, a cane can give you the opportunity to get out more! It is even better if you are deteriorating slowly enough that you can use a cane when you need it, but can forego the cane if you are having a better day.
In addition to all of that, when you are someone who requires a cane (especially if you are a young person), people are often a little more kind. They may ask if you need help, hold doors open for you, you might get some special treatment or some nice parking spots, and it can even spark conversation. It is not all bad to be losing mobility. That doesn't mean I'm happy about it, but there are some silver linings.