One of the biggest struggles that I have is my memory. I find that in times of major pain and focusing on medication, I don't remember much.
I just went through the list of people who are attending a make-shift high school reunion this year. I look at these people and I remember most of their faces, I get a gut feeling of who they are, but I can't seem to remember many experiences with them (if any at all). I know that I was on several sports teams, I was involved in music and acting clubs, I went on two sailing trips, and was involved in social situations where I would have interacted with these people, I even dated a bit, and I have a vague recollection of some instances, but I can't seem to remember any specifics... At all...
I attribute this to the fact that my life, at that time, centered around my health so much that my mind couldn't hold onto any memories. I know that I was in and out of hospital and was dealing with several medications... But it's amazing how much I DON'T remember from that time.
Basically, if I didn't attend junior high or elementary with someone, chances are, I will not have a clue what experiences we may have shared in high school. Pretty shocking.
I remember years ago someone from high school was reminding me of a time we did a performance and how we worked so hard on this duet and performed it in front of the entire school - I had no idea what that girl was talking about. I only vaguely recognized the song and I couldn't tell you anything about it. I just cannot remember, no matter how hard I try.
Ever since then, I try and write down all the good stuff that happens. The great experiences, the kind comments, everything in life that makes me smile. I figure, because of how hard the last couple of years have been, I may not remember anything that has gone on these past years. So why not only write down the good stuff? If I am going to purposely remind myself of situations, I may as well fill my mind up with the good stuff. :)
For anyone of you who are dealing with chronic illness - make sure to write things down. I thought I would never forget certain things, but when your mind and body is constantly focused on fighting off pain, memory takes a back seat. If you want to ensure that you remember something - write it down for future reference. It will be worth it!